How does a professional carer support a patient and family during serious illness?

We recently checked in with *Sly, a professional carer to get a glimpse into the daily routine and challenges while caring for patients in a palliative care setting. Here’s what she had to share:
What does a typical day look like for you when providing care for a palliative patient?
A typical day starts with reviewing the patient’s chart to check for any medication changes since my last shift. If my shift begins at 6:00 a.m., I go through the charts to see how the patients have slept. I then order their breakfasts and prepare their medication. Once breakfast is served, I administer the medication and begin with the basics of care, like bathing the patients and making sure they are comfortable. Throughout the day, I keep checking on them, provide pressure care, and change their positions as needed while staying alert for any emergencies.
What challenges do you face on a daily basis, and how do you overcome them?
One of the biggest challenges is answering questions from family members or loved ones. Sometimes, they ask about the patient’s condition, and it’s difficult to provide a clear answer, especially when the condition hasn’t changed. You never know how they will react, and you fear saying something that could hurt them. To manage this, I try to be as compassionate and honest as possible, always putting the family’s emotional needs first.
Can you describe a situation where you felt particularly rewarded or satisfied with your work?
One of the most rewarding moments for me was when a family member mentioned they would come back just to receive the same care and love we provided to their loved one. Another time, a patient called her daughter and said, “Please don’t forget to get Sly some sweets.” These small gestures of appreciation make all the hard work worthwhile.
How do you take care of your own well-being while providing such intensive care?
For me, taking care of my own well-being means surrounding myself with supportive people and making sure I get enough rest. I love sleeping, and it’s my way of recharging after a long and demanding day. Taking time for myself helps me stay strong and keep providing the best care possible.
The role of a professional carer in palliative care is both challenging and rewarding. It involves not only meeting the physical needs of patients but also navigating emotional challenges with their families. Despite the difficulties, the small moments of appreciation and connection make it all worthwhile.


I’ve known *James for several years from work. He doesn’t have a close relationship with his family, and there aren’t many people he could call close friends either. When his cancer got worse, he asked me to be his proxy. I didn’t fully understand what that meant, but I said yes. After his last hospital stay, it was clear that James needed constant care, so I invited him to stay with me for a while.
According to community members, palliative care in Khayelitsha has long been associated with death, making it a sensitive topic for the community. Cultural and spiritual beliefs about death contribute to barriers in accessing palliative care resulting in many community members avoiding discussion and options for palliative care. Our goal in Khayelitsha is to change the community’s perception and tackle some of these barriers, as many palliative care patients only receive support from immediate family members, not the wider community.
Why did you decide to do the PG DIP course?
Why did you decide to do the PG DIP- Pall Med?
Two years ago, I received a diagnosis that changed my life: colon cancer. Since then, my journey has had many challenges and uncertainties.

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